9.03.2012

I think I am attracted to

patience - me being a rather impatient person and all.  Not "attracted" as in "hey you look good" kind of "attraction", but probably something more like "naturally drawn to" - except either way I word it I can't get it to mean that I simply... admire?  Well, it's more than just admiring.  Most of the my friends and all the people that I can still continue to talk to are rather patient people.

But thinking about being drawn to - I hate guys who within probably 4 lines of conversation, they immediately ask me for a number or another way to contact me.  I know the rest of the world thinks like what on Earth Tiffany be more open like no there's a reason why I like the fact that I'm different.  The thing is, to most people I'm pretty boring and duh of course when I begin talking to a guy I'm very friendly and try to enquire after them but after a while the small chat will completely disappear and I won't talk to you unless it's about something meaningful (or of course, something I find important to myself at least).  So to save anyone that trouble, I'd rather we talk for a bit more before someone enquires more about me in that sort of beyond-friendly way because I promise probably 80% of the time they will be disappointed.  I admire and like guys who wait.  Patience.  Even though I don't have much myself - but that could be the whole "opposites attract" thing for me.

It's definitely not as if I'm not working on my patience, though.

But yeah, I must admit things are pretty different when I find a guy cute, aha.. I have to be careful in those situations, then.

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